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Moving isn't easy for anyone, even for adults. And while moving can be a time for some great new things - like your own room or a new place to explore - it can also be a time that's sad and stressful, too. Here are some ways to make a move a little easier.
Talk It Out
When you find out that you're moving, a million thoughts may race through your head. The next place those thoughts should go is simple: out of your mouth! If you're afraid that you won't make new friends, nervous about riding the bus with 30 new kids, or upset because you have to give up your position as captain of the soccer team, don't keep it to yourself. Whatever you're feeling, talk to your mom or dad about it. They'll probably have some good ideas and suggestions.
Check Things Out
Finding out about the new place you'll be living can make you feel better for a couple of reasons. First, you'll feel less nervous when you know what to expect, and second, you may start getting a little excited about the new place you're headed to. If you are going to be moving to another town or village nearby, ask a parent to drive you around so you can check things out.
The first thing you'll want to do is see your new house or apartment. If the house or apartment is new, or if nobody is living there, your parent may be able to show you around. This will give you a chance to think about how you want your room to look. And if you run into any kids who live on the street or in the apartment building and you feel like it, say hi to them and introduce yourself. Maybe they'll be future friends.
Your new school is another important stop on this tour. Maybe your mom or dad can arrange a visit, so you'll know what it looks like inside. You may even be able to ask a teacher or school aide to give you a tour, so you'll be able to find your way around the school on your first day. If you're into band, sports, or other clubs, ask which activities are offered at your new school - and what to do if you want to join.
If you're moving far away to another part of the country, or even a different part of the world, you'll need to check things out in a different way. You can do an Internet search and find out about your new town. You also can visit your library and check for books on that city or state. Please remember ask your mum or dad to help you when your on the internet.
Pack It Up
Before you move, your house will probably be full of chaos and boxes. You might want to ask your parent if you can pack a special box of your favorite stuff - stuff you'll want to have as soon as you get there. This can include personal items, such as stuffed animals, photos, and other stuff that will make you feel at home. It's also a wise idea to include stuff you'll need the first night, such as sheets for your bed, a pillow, pajamas, toothbrush, and other must-haves. Ask that this box be marked with your name on it, so you can grab it when it comes off the moving truck.
Once you've taken care of your most precious stuff, ask if you can help with other moving tasks. Your parents will just love you for it! There's so much to do when a family moves.
Preparing for Goodbye
It's sad to say goodbye to friends, family, and neighbors. You can make it less sad if you grab an address book (or just a plain notebook) ahead of time and have everyone write down his or her address, phone number, and e-mail address. You also can get a big blank book and ask your friends to fill it with messages.
If you have a camera or video camera, take lots of pictures or videos of your friends, your favorite places, and your neighborhood. You can even put together a scrapbook or shoebox full of things that remind you of your hometown and all your friends.